Have you had one?

You know, a relationship that you have after a serious break-up.

I had one. And looking back, the break-up would have been easier with my transitional guy if I had realized that we were together to help each other through a tough time and now it was time for both of us to move on to find people who were better suited for us.

So two questions- 1) Have you had a transitional relationship? And 2)how did the break up go?

well my first relation was the longest witch was about two months, it all ended up because at a quinceanera i caught her cheating on me with this other guy. i walked out side and saw her and this other dude sucking faces, went back in and after a while she came back in, so i confronted her and she said "No, i was walking an i triped, he caught me and we accidentaly kissed." yhea right accidentally kissed for five min. well after that i did not wanted to go out with no one.

Oh, at first I thought you said that your first relationship was with the longest witch, J EON :)) haha, sorry :))

haha, "accidently" huh ?

Aw, I'm sorry, J :( She really was a witch :(

kissing? bitch! hmm i found out my ex was cheating when he came over n he had a hicky on his neck i saw it after he had tried to hide it n he told me it was just a rash and the he leant back n i saw a hicky just under his navel.... lol when i asked him what it was he froze up n started making excuses hahahahaha couldnt even lie to save his life dickhead..... anyway back to Maria's Q. Yeah i think its usually called a rebound? ive had one of those infact i think i had a few lol, after David moved overseas i was seriously depressed lol heartbroken we had been together for 2yrs, and then i had quite a few single-meetings where i would like a guy and as soon as i found out he was interested in me we would go on a date and i would lose all interest completely. It was so strange, the first time i told the guy that i had got out of the relationship and i wasnt myself but yeh u know the outcome to that the rest i honestly thought i was moving on but i didnt.

As soon as they became genuinely interested in me i lost all interest in them. So i stopped seeing guys lol i didnt want to meet anyone, n i got over David lol. And this last yr n a bit i have been ready to move on.

Well that's good, Mona. I'm sure I told you how I compared everyone to my first love. Dumb things, like they didn't articulate their words the same way and they weren't a writer. Instead of looking at the positives like the fact that the next person was a good, honest, wholesome person and family oriented, had a great job,ambitious, was in fantastic shape and was definitely looking to get married and have kids and I was amazingly attracted to him.

yeh i went down the same track lol no guy measured up :p now i dont know if i do or not but i wont sell myself for anything less :p

thank god nope lol. All going good in my life and dont have anything on the back of my mind. Free from negativity lmao.

well, some shitty stuff happened some days back in the past, but got to move on and relax lol.

always moving on is the right thing

ya man